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| Annette was the first person at Mike’s side when I was in surgery, giving birth to Chris |
Annette was brought up in a large family of a Lutheran pastor. Neal was an only child. They both chose to go into professions of service–nursing and teaching, fitting professions for their generous personalities. After they got married, they had two children, Lindsay and Corleigh (Corey), who they raised around the world–when the kids were young, they lived mostly in Tanzania and India…and later on in Egypt. In fact, Corey is now the vice principal of Kodaikanal International School in Kodai, India, holding the position that his father held throughout his youth. Corey met his wonderful wife, Nandita, at school there and now they have a gorgeous little boy, Tarun. Sadly, Nandita and Tarun are stranded here in the U.S. while they wait for Nandita to receive her visa. We will miss them during their time in India! It’s home away from home for all of them, though, and Neal and Annette hope to spend time there visiting as well.
| On the shores of Lake Chelan, before going to Holden Village in 2005 |
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| At one of Chris’ birthdays |
Neal and Annette are some of the kindest and most compassionate, generous, and loving people we know. We will always be grateful to them for caring for us when Chris was in the NICU with prayer, hugs, and food. They are extended family for us. I have so many fond memories of spending time with them over the past 22 years–eating Indian food together, having them be present at so many of our family milestones, seeing them tease back and forth with my parents, sharing silly jokes, figuring out how to care for people who need attention, and tons of laughter and great conversation about travel, literature, religion, and politics!
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| They lived in Costa Rica a few years ago, and my parents had a great time visiting them |
| My all-time favorite of Neal and Annette! |
I like to tease them that they know EVERYONE. They have got to be the most well-connected people in the universe…probably because of their friendly, open natures and ability to make connections wherever they go.
Neal is a gifted musician, but he’s also incredibly humble and self-effacing. I don’t think he has any clue how naturally talented he is. When I tell him, he just turns embarassed…but I will shout it from the rooftops on my blog!
| Annette with Tarun, their beautiful grandson, when he was a baby |
| Neal with Tarun |
Neal and Annette are surrogate grandparents to our kids, and they are always so wonderful at coming to see them in their various plays and such. We truly appreciate their presence!
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| Coming to see Chris in “Grease” in middle school |
| Coming to watch Kieran in “Frankenstein: The Little Monster” (A few weeks ago they went to see “Pinocchio” with Nandita and Tarun) |
| Reading a poem on Burns Night |
| Another favorite photo! |
Neal and Annette have taken on the mantle of a new project we’ve started at our church, the “Community Care Team.” They match members up with other members in need. Even though they’ve both had their share of health problems themselves recently and have their hands full caring for their grandson, they always find time to help other people…whether they are members of our church or out in the community (such as women trying to get off the street in downtown Portland). They live their faith out loud…not by preaching or telling people how to live their lives, but by caring for people openly and lovingly.
| Celebrating Annette’s and my mother-in-law’s birthdays in April– Mike must have said something obnoxious! |
| Nicholas’ second birthday– He’s always had a special relationship with Neal and Annette, because they used to watch him that year one morning a week |



