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| Being silly at the beach with my brother and sister |
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| With Youth Encounter friends Jeannette and Amila |
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| In my dorm room during junior year |
- Cross-country trips: The first vivid memory was in 1981, when my family took a 6-week trip across

Meeting up with a childhood friend
in Salem, Massachusettsthe U.S. in a Buick Regal and three pup tents. We camped all the way, in addition to staying with friends and family in Ohio, Minnesota, Pennsylvania, Virginia, and Colorado. It was a phenomenally fun journey…and all before technology. We had Sony walkmans and books–that was it. We headed out through Montana, Wyoming, and South Dakota, through the Midwest, and to the East Coast, and headed back through Kentucky and Colorado. We hit most of the big cities with the exception of Chicago. I had just studied American history in school so loved visiting all the historical spots, especially in Philadelphia, throughout Massachusetts, New York, and Washington DC.
In 1986, after graduating from college, my friend Debbie and I flew to Boston and spent a week there…and then flew down to Washington DC, where my aunt was doing a sabbatical at the Smithsonian. We drove their car all the way back to Seattle for them, with my friend Peary from Colorado. It was quite an adventure!
- First airplane ride: I flew down to the Bay Area with dorm friends to visit another friend whose family lived in Sacramento. We spent time in San Francisco, floated down the river, went to an amusement park, and hung out in her family’s wonderful pool, ringed with rosemary. So much fun!

First weekend in Japan First trip abroad: In 1986 after I graduated from PLU I left for a year in Japan with my college roommate Debbie, and the following week my parents said goodbye to my sister who spent the year in China. I ended up staying in Japan for three years, since I met the love of my life there!
- First big solo trip: For Christmas in 1986, I took a boat from Kobe, Japan, to Shanghai, China, and spent a night in Shanghai on my own. That’s another blog post in itself. Then I flew to Chengdu, where my sister lived, and I’ll never forget getting off the plane and bursting into tears, because I missed her so much! We spent a wonderful and unique Christmas in China together.
- Global travel: Traveled to Korea, Thailand, Taiwan (one night only), Hong Kong (several times), Macau (twice), Singapore (twice), Malaysia, Indonesia, and India between 1986 and 1989. By the end of the 1980s, I’d been to over half of the United States and 11 countries.
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| Christmas in Chengdu, 1986 |
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| I loved my Gunne Sax dress! |
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| My lei was sent to me by a PLU friend in Hawaii |
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| With my little friend Emily (now a nurse and mother of two with another on the way!) |
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| With her brother Aaron, at a shower my mom and I threw for him (now a Portland police officer!) |
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| My sweet cousins who I nannied for two summers (and had a horrible, tear-soaked time saying goodbye to when I left for Japan in 1986!) |
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| Same cousins in 1988, when Mike visited Oregon for the first time |
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| Found some Japanese children to cuddle |
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| And another one |
7. Karaoke!
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| Debbie and I singing karaoke in Osaka, the first weekend in Japan |
8. Romance!
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| In Japan, fall 1988 |
In college I dated a guy named Todd for about a year. He was just the rehearsal for the love of my life! I met Mike in Japan in 1987 and my life changed. Between early 1987 and the end of 1989 (when we got engaged in India), I was having the time of my life being in love!
9. Music!
I remember listening to a lot of Billy Joel and Cyndi Lauper in college…interspersed with Amy Grant and Michael W. Smith. My college boyfriend Todd loved Toto and Chicago (not my favorites!) and we saw both of them in concert. My favorite college dance tunes were “Tainted Love,” “Don’t You Want Me,” “Rock Lobster,” “Karma Chameleon,” and “Modern Love.” And let’s not forget Michael Jackson and Prince.
In Japan my Scottish friend Cath introduced me to UB40, Steve Winwood, the Gipsy Kings, and the Eurythmics. I introduced Mike to James Taylor and Billy Joel, and we saw Billy Joel, UB40, and Bryan Adams perform in Osaka. We listened to Squeeze and Simply Red a lot when I visited Nadine in China. Madonna was hugely popular in Japan at the time, and some of my students even said I looked like her! (They also said Mike looked like Bruce Willis, so you can tell how accurate they were. I think we must all look alike!)
10. Maturity
In Udaipur, India, in September 1989, Mike asked me to marry him. At the end of that month I went back to Oregon and Mike returned to England until January. I started planning our wedding and looking for a job. And I grew up. So by the end of the ’80s, I was 24 and officially an adult!
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